As California joined Florida and
Arizona in approving a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage
this week, something unusual happened: Gay rights activists in the
state fought back.
Since Wednesday, protesters across the
Golden State have taken to the streets and stormed Mormon temples,
leaving us all to wonder where this is going.
It's disturbing, but I have to say that
it's not without merit.
Voters in California did something so
appalling that any red-blooded gay person would have been incensed.
By approving the gay marriage ban, voters yanked back the right of
gays and lesbians to marry in the state – something they had been
doing at a breakneck pace since the California Supreme Court struck
down a 2000 voter-approved law banning gay marriage in May.
Californian gay couples are once again
barred from marriage in the state, leaving only Massachusetts and
Connecticut (as of Nov. 12th) issuing marriage licenses to gay
Thousands of gay marriage backers took
to the streets in San Francisco and Los Angeles – and over 10,000 in San Diego – angry over the role played by The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints (the Mormons) in passing the anti-gay
A protest in Salt Lake City, Utah drew
another 2,000 protesters who waved rainbow flags outside the
headquarters of the Mormon Church. Signs that read “Mormons: Once
persecuted, now persecutors” were visible among the rainbow flags,
a symbol of gay identity.
Mormon involvement in the gay marriage
ban was based primarily out of the Mormon stronghold of Utah, home
base of the Mormon Church, where members make up a majority (62%) of
the population. At the urging of President Thomas Monson, the
hard-working Mormon ethic churned out massive donations of time and
money. Some estimate Mormon members accounted for as much as 75% of
the $36 million raised to promote the gay marriage ban.
Other protest ideas, such as the
withholding of gay taxes or boycotting the state of Utah, have also
been floated, primarily on the Internet.
But as justified as the anger might be,
it won't settle much; it's time to accept the fact that our campaign
Can we blame a financial shortfall?
Certainly not; the No-On-8 campaign raised nearly $40 million to
fight Proposition 8. Can we blame a lack of support? Absolutely
not; gay marriage backers included the Hollywood elite, corporations,
labor unions, liberal churches, high-profile politicians –
former-President Bill Clinton and President-elect Barack Obama
included – as well as gay and lesbian rights groups.
Some have suggested the notion that
race sunk us; as African-Americans showed up at the polls in record
numbers to support President-elect Barack Obama, they also voted
against gay marriage overwhelmingly.
But there we can only blame ourselves;
there was little to no outreach to the African-American community on
the subject of gay marriage during the short June-to-November
The reason for our loss is simple: We
failed to craft a message that allowed voters to see gay marriage as
the simple civil rights issue that it is.
Civil marriage is a plain contract
between two people, and only two people (sorry, but dogs and horses,
who are unable to give consent, cannot enter contracts). Society,
however, has dressed up marriage to include fanciful ideas of being
an institution devoted to the rearing of children and a joyful
celebration of life. The reality is that nearly half of American
couples come to realize too late that there is nothing magical about
the contract itself; that magic must come from within.
Moreover, there was little discussion
as to why civil unions fall short of marriage. The
separate-but-equal argument is language that Black voters identify
with, but was not pursued much.
Pro-gay rights groups in California announced Wednesday they would challenge the legality of the newly-passed gay marriage ban, arguing that it was invalid because it
alters the constitution's “core commitment to equality for everyone
by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group, lesbian and
The rights groups say the gay marriage
ban used an improper vehicle – a voter ballot – to alter the
constitution. They contend that such a measure is only valid when
making superficial changes to the constitution. To change the
underlying principles of the constitution, a measure must first be
approved by the legislature before being submitted to the voters on a
ballot. Proposition 8 radically alters the California constitution
by removing rights previously given by the constitution itself, and
relied on the voter
ballot to accomplish its goal.
Despite these grave gay marriage
election did provide some wonderful gay and lesbian victories, as
voters approved forty openly gay state representatives and senators
Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund President Chuck Wolfe called 2008 a “watershed election” for gay candidates.
Voters overwhelmingly re-elected openly
gay Wisconsin Representative Tammy Baldwin and Massachusetts
Representative Barney Frank, while Coloradoans took a shot at
freshman Representative Jared Polis.
And while Baldwin praised Polis' big
win in Colorado – saying Polis will bring a new “energy” and
“perspective” to Congress – she lamented the loss of openly gay Linda Ketner in South Carolina.
“Linda Ketner mounted a challenge to
what most people would agree is a well-entrenched Republican
incumbent,” Baldwin told OUTTAKEOnline CEO Charlotte Robinson.
“She really made some history there [running as an openly gay
candidate in the deep south]. And while she came up short, I'm very
proud of her strong candidacy and think she has helped create a path
for others to follow. And that's noteworthy in and of itself.”
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