An Arlington, Virginia bakery has refused to apologize for baking an anniversary cake for a lesbian customer mocking her relationship.

Sarah told The Advocate that she ordered a carrot cake from the bakery's catalog that was decorated with balloons and asked for the balloons to be replaced with the sentiment “Happy Anniversary Lindsey! Love, Sarah.”

Sarah instead got a chocolate cake with balloons that sloppily read: “Lesbian Anniv. No Ballons.”

Sarah said that a manager refused to apologize for the cake's message, but did refund her money and offered her a “less sloppy” cake.

“When it occurred to me that this was probably an intentional insult to my relationship, I was appalled at the audacity of the cake decorator or baker or whomever was responsible,” she said. “It's disappointing to know that when I want to honor the most important person in my life, I have to worry about some intolerant person ruining the surprise I had planned.”

The couple is planning to eat the free “no ballons” cake.